New Dental Practice Owner? Unbecome The Boss You Swore You'd Never Be
You know the type. The clipboard-carrying, motivational-quote-posting, trying too hard to be “punny” boss. You worked for one once. Maybe you worked for several. You swore you’d never become that person.
Then you opened your own practice.
Suddenly, you’re catching yourself saying things your old boss used to say. Making decisions the way they made decisions. Following the same leadership playbook that you hated as an employee. You’re becoming the boss you swore you’d never be.
Here’s the truth: We can’t change the bosses you’ve had, but we can help you become the boss you’ve always wanted to be. The one your team actually wants to follow.
It starts with recognizing that you don’t have to lead the way you were led. You can build trust instead of demanding it. You can listen instead of lecturing. You can coach instead of commanding.
The best part? When you commit to growing as a leader, your team evolves with you. They see you trying to be better, and they want to be better too. Trust builds. Communication improves. Culture strengthens.
You don’t have to figure it out alone. Get a coach. Read leadership books. Invest in yourself the way you invest in your practice equipment. Because the best leaders aren’t born—they’re built.
Stop becoming the boss you never wanted to work for. Start becoming the leader you always wished you had.
Kirk Behrendt
Kirk Behrendt is a renowned consultant and speaker in the dental industry, known for his expertise in helping dentists create better practices and better lives. With over 30 years of experience in the field, Kirk has dedicated his professional life to optimizing the best systems and practices in dentistry. Kirk has been a featured speaker at every major dental meeting in the United States. His company, ACT Dental, has consistently been ranked as one of the top dental consultants in Dentistry Today's annual rankings for the past 10 years. In addition, ACT Dental was named one of the fastest-growing companies in the United States by Inc Magazine, appearing on their Inc 5000 list. Kirk's motivational skills are widely recognized in the dental industry. Dr. Peter Dawson of The Dawson Academy has referred to Kirk as "THE best motivator I have ever heard." Kirk has also assembled a trusted team of advisor experts who work with dentists to customize individual solutions that meet their unique needs. When he's not motivating dentists and their teams, Kirk enjoys coaching his children's sports teams and spending time with his amazing wife, Sarah, and their four children, Kinzie, Lily, Zoe, and Bo.
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