A major component to creating a better practice and a better life is learning how to communicate, because using the right language is crucial to explaining to your patients why they should stick with you during this time of transition. The things we say carry a lot of weight because they build safety and trust, and in this time of uncertainty it’s crucially important to remember that language matters now more than ever.
Change Your Thinking
The first step to moving away from PPOs is to get rid of the limiting belief that patients will only see you because you’re on their insurance plan. Your patients come to see you because you’re valuable. They come because of you. Own that fact and communicate from a place of believing that the patients who value you and the service you provide will stay with you. When you begin with this mindset, you’re starting from a place of value and strength instead of a place of fear and concern. There’s already so much fear present during a time of transition—doctors afraid of losing patients, patients afraid because they don’t know what’s happening, and team members afraid because they’re not trained to answer patients’ questions.
Look to Your Values
When coaching a practice through this transition, the first question I hear is always “I don’t know where to begin this conversation.” As with everything in business, the conversation about transitioning from PPOs needs to start with your core values. You must be able to tell your patients why you’re transitioning, so in essence you need to tell them why you got into dentistry, and that’s where your core values come in. Did you become a dentist because you want to let a third party inform the treatment you provide, or because you want to do what’s best for the patient, every time? You need to be confident in answering your “Why” because your team needs to see that confidence so they can be confident as well. Once you’ve answered that first question, then you’re able to move on more easily.
Work as a Team
When you make the decision to transition away from PPO and in-network status, the conversation can’t start up front with your administrative team members. There’s a different kind of trust that exists between the dentist or hygienist and the patients, so that’s where the conversation must start. Let the clinical team start the conversation from the position of your core values, and then move it up front so the admin team can fill in the gaps, because they should not have to bear the brunt of the conversation.
We say it all the time, but the truth is the admin team gets the least amount of training anywhere in dentistry, and yet they’re expected to execute a ton of tasks every day they’ve received no additional training in. We’re responsible for filling that gap and giving them training, because the person on the phone needs to put the patient at ease and create a lot of confidence. Kirk says that “The person who answers your phone doesn’t represent your business—he or she is your whole business,” so the care, skill, and eloquence of someone at the phone determines a lot of your success.
It's critically important to get everyone on the same page, so devote time each month to calibrating your verbal skills as a team. Everyone needs to be aligned on the language they use, and they need to practice and lean into these skills so you have plenty of time for the transition to be successful.
Say This, Not That
In our years of helping practices grow and improve, we’ve heard so many comments over and over and have seen how they land with the patients. As such, we’ve become experts on what we unintentionally communicate with the words we choose. There’s always a better way to phrase something, such as saying:
- “Investment” instead of “fee”
- “Unrestricted provider” or “insurance friendly” instead of “out of network”
When you put a positive spin on it, you’re showing the patient you’ve created something unique and special where the patient will feel heard and that they have value beyond what’s on their insurance. Your practice is like no other, and the things you say need to be authentically you. We don’t like scripts because what works in one practice may not work in another. A script is a way to get started, but when you have a team member with the right core values; clarity; and the Say This, Not That document; they don’t need a script.
Kirk says that “Your ability to communicate will determine how far you go in dentistry, so don’t ever stop improving how you communicate.”
Jenni Poulos
Jenni brings to dental teams a literal lifetime of experience in dentistry. As the daughter and sister of periodontists and a dental hygienist, she has been working in many facets of the dental world since she first held a summer job turning rooms and pouring models at the age of 12. Now, with over 10 years experience in managing and leading a large periodontal practice, she has a firm grasp on what it takes to run a thriving business. Her passion for organizational health and culture has been a driving force behind her coaching career. She has witnessed first hand how creating an aligned and engaged team will take a practice to levels of success that they never believed possible!
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